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Respect:00:00:19
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Sometimes we work so hard to show it00:00:24
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but receive little in return.00:00:29
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The question is,00:00:47
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Does it really have to be that way at home?00:00:50
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We might need to change habits00:01:03
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that we learned growing up.00:01:05
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Or we may realize00:01:14
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that we need to change
our choice of entertainment.00:01:16
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While it may not be easy, it is possible00:01:22
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to cultivate the mutual respect we once had.00:01:25
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A helpful principle
was stated long ago in the Bible:00:01:30
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“Just as you want [others] to do to you,00:01:33
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do the same way to them.”00:01:35
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Husbands especially need to feel respected.00:01:46
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But wives also need to feel valued, 00:02:04
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loved, and heard by their husbands.00:02:10
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If we start by doing things00:02:13
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that show we honor our mate,00:02:16
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we’ll create an atmosphere
where respect can grow.00:02:19
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Always remember to consider
how your words will affect your mate00:02:36
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—whether in public00:02:40
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or even in private.00:02:46
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If you must correct a matter,
wait until you are alone.00:02:52
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Use a kind tone and gentle speech.00:02:57
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Even when you disagree,00:02:59
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keep showing
that you value your mate’s opinion.00:03:02
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Think about everything your spouse does,00:03:17
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both the big things and the little things,00:03:24
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to take good care of your family.00:03:27
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Try not to focus on your mate’s flaws.00:03:43
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Commend more than you criticize.00:03:51
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And tell your mate every day00:04:11
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something specific
you appreciate about them.00:04:14
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Peace is the beautiful result00:04:18
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when both husband and wife show respect00:04:21
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to the person who deserves it most
—one another.00:04:25
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Here are three questions for you to discuss00:04:29
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that can help
to build respect in your marriage.00:04:32
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This is simply a chance
to openly express how each of you feels.00:04:37
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Be ready to listen and willing to change.00:04:41
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So if it’s convenient,
pause this video now00:04:46
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and really talk.00:04:48
For a Happy Marriage: Show Respect
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For a Happy Marriage: Show Respect
Respect:
Sometimes we work so hard to show it
but receive little in return.
The question is,
Does it really have to be that way at home?
We might need to change habits
that we learned growing up.
Or we may realize
that we need to change
our choice of entertainment.
While it may not be easy, it is possible
to cultivate the mutual respect we once had.
A helpful principle
was stated long ago in the Bible:
“Just as you want [others] to do to you,
do the same way to them.”
Husbands especially need to feel respected.
But wives also need to feel valued,
loved, and heard by their husbands.
If we start by doing things
that show we honor our mate,
we’ll create an atmosphere
where respect can grow.
Always remember to consider
how your words will affect your mate
—whether in public
or even in private.
If you must correct a matter,
wait until you are alone.
Use a kind tone and gentle speech.
Even when you disagree,
keep showing
that you value your mate’s opinion.
Think about everything your spouse does,
both the big things and the little things,
to take good care of your family.
Try not to focus on your mate’s flaws.
Commend more than you criticize.
And tell your mate every day
something specific
you appreciate about them.
Peace is the beautiful result
when both husband and wife show respect
to the person who deserves it most
—one another.
Here are three questions for you to discuss
that can help
to build respect in your marriage.
This is simply a chance
to openly express how each of you feels.
Be ready to listen and willing to change.
So if it’s convenient,
pause this video now
and really talk.
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