彼得·普赖斯:在情感压力下保持忠贞
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身为上帝嘅子民00:00:03
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我哋都会避免依赖人嘅谂法00:00:06
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尤其系当信心受到考验嗰阵00:00:09
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正如今日嘅经文所讲00:00:11
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如果我哋开始00:00:13
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纯粹用人嘅观点去睇事情嘅话00:00:16
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慢慢我哋就会00:00:18
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忘记咗依赖耶和华00:00:21
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我哋大多数人已经有心理准备00:00:24
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要面对撒但嘅攻击00:00:26
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可能系直接嘅迫害或者反对00:00:30
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我哋都知道要用咩圣经原则00:00:33
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点样尊重噉回应00:00:35
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彼得前书3:15话00:00:37
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“要准备好为自己嘅希望辩护00:00:41
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向人解释呢个希望有乜嘢根据”00:00:44
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噉唔系话我哋要靠自己00:00:46
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或者觉得自己叻过其他人00:00:49
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而系我哋信赖上帝嘅指引00:00:52
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同埋智慧00:00:53
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箴言3:5,6提醒我哋00:00:56
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“要全心信赖上帝00:00:58
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唔可以依靠自己嘅聪明”00:01:01
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呢个世界嘅人会依靠自己嘅聪明00:01:04
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钟意做乜就做乜00:01:06
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但系信赖耶和华嘅人00:01:09
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就唔会受呢种思想影响00:01:12
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不过有时撒但嘅攻击未必好直接㗎00:01:16
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甚至系唔容易察觉到00:01:19
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估佢唔到㗎00:01:21
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例如当我哋屋企面对紧一啲困难00:01:25
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呢个时候有啲屋企人嘅反应00:01:28
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会令我哋好难受00:01:30
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我哋未必察觉到呢个系个考验嚟㗎00:01:34
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以为只系屋企人嘅反应00:01:37
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牵动咗我哋嘅情绪00:01:39
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而令到自己有压力啫00:01:42
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但系耶和华就知道得好清楚00:01:44
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所以喺圣经入面记录咗一啲好榜样00:01:47
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佢哋面对屋企人俾嘅压力00:01:50
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仍然保持忠贞00:01:52
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其中一个好榜样就系约伯00:01:56
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我哋知道约伯系个紧守忠义嘅人00:01:59
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喺考验之下失去咗好多嘢00:02:02
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但系喺咁多个考验之中00:02:05
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令佢最难受嘅系嚟自佢太太00:02:09
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佢同约伯都系考验之中00:02:12
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经历紧极大嘅伤痛00:02:14
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我哋一齐睇吓约伯记2:900:02:19
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约伯记2:900:02:24
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当时佢太太好伤心就话00:02:28
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“你仲要紧守忠义呀?00:02:30
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你咒上帝 死咗佢算啦”00:02:35
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佢太太噉样讲唔系因为佢好刻薄00:02:39
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而系因为佢受到好大嘅打击00:02:42
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好伤心00:02:43
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而家向约伯施压 要佢放弃忠义嘅00:02:47
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唔系佢嘅敌人00:02:48
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而系佢好爱嘅太太00:02:52
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你有冇经历过类似嘅情况呢?00:02:55
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可能你嘅父母00:02:57
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啱啱入咗院甚至过咗身00:03:00
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你同屋企人一时间都未接受到00:03:03
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喺呢个时候00:03:04
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其中一个屋企人同你讲00:03:08
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“个屋企你都有份㗎00:03:10
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你净系顾住个委派就得㗎啦00:03:13
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啲嘢唔使理㗎?”00:03:15
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同你越亲嘅人噉样讲00:03:17
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你嘅感觉就越大00:03:19
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你可能会谂00:03:20
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“点解佢会噉样讲嘅00:03:22
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我都好想多啲陪屋企人00:03:25
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但系冇办法噉样做00:03:26
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我都好难受㗎㖞!00:03:28
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我成日都为佢哋祷告 挂住佢哋00:03:31
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挂到经常瞓唔着00:03:33
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呢啲你又知唔知吖?”00:03:35
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喺呢个时候00:03:37
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我哋嘅思想可能会00:03:38
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比自己嘅感情影响到00:03:42
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唔单止系约伯嘅太太令约伯好难受00:03:45
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佢嘅朋友以利法、比勒达同琐法00:03:49
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都比咗好大压力佢00:03:50
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以利法话约伯肯定系做错咗啲乜嘢00:03:54
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琐法叫佢唔好再犯罪00:03:56
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比勒达就话佢嘅仔女00:03:58
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实系犯咗罪先至要死00:04:01
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佢哋对约伯冇爱心00:04:03
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唔系讲紧事实00:04:04
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只系讲自己嘅谂法啫00:04:06
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之后耶和华喺约伯记42:700:04:10
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同以利法讲00:04:12
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“你同你嗰两个朋友令我好嬲00:04:15
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因为你哋谈论我00:04:17
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唔似我嘅仆人约伯讲嘅咁正确”00:04:21
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佢哋以为帮紧约伯00:04:23
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其实就伤害紧佢00:04:25
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类似嘅说话未必好似约伯噉00:04:28
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嚟自一啲所谓嘅朋友00:04:30
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而系可能嚟自未崇拜耶和华嘅屋企人00:04:34
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我哋可能喺而家嘅岗位00:04:37
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忠贞噉服务咗好耐00:04:39
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但系而家要改变岗位00:04:41
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甚至就快完喇00:04:43
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我哋祷告希望可以00:04:44
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继续为耶和华全时服务00:04:47
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呢个时候就听到有人噉样讲00:04:51
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“你仲要为教会做义工呀?00:04:54
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做咗咁耐乜都够啦00:04:56
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谂吓自己 揾多啲钱”00:04:59
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屋企人可能唔明白00:05:01
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我哋点解咁想为耶和华服务00:05:04
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尤其系如果因为岗位改变00:05:07
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我哋觉得唔开心00:05:09
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噉佢哋嘅说话00:05:10
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就可能会动摇我哋嘅决定喇00:05:14
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同约伯嘅朋友一样00:05:16
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呢啲说话系人嘅谂法00:05:19
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唔系嚟自上帝㗎00:05:22
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嚟自人嘅谂法00:05:23
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好容易令我哋忘记咗耶和华嘅观点00:05:27
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呢啲噉样嘅压力系唔容易察觉㗎00:05:31
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仲会令人失去警觉00:05:33
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虽然约伯喺精神上承受巨大嘅压力00:05:37
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而且佢唔知道自己点解会受苦00:05:41
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但系仍然坚守对上帝嘅忠义00:05:45
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我哋喺佢身上可以学到乜嘢呢?00:05:48
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有三点㗎00:05:50
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第一样00:05:52
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约伯教我哋要依靠耶和华嘅智慧00:05:55
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唔系自己嘅感觉或者人嘅谂法00:05:59
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佢嘅太太当时好伤心00:06:02
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仲叫佢放弃00:06:04
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但系约伯冇嬲、冇反驳佢00:06:07
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只系强调自己会继续信赖耶和华00:06:11
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我哋睇吓佢喺约伯记2:10点讲吖00:06:14
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约伯记2:1000:06:17
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“约伯就回答00:06:19
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‘你讲说话就好似一个无知嘅女人00:06:22
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唔通我哋从上帝嗰度净系接受福分00:06:25
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但系就唔接受灾祸咩?’00:06:27
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即使遭遇呢一切00:06:29
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但系约伯冇讲唔应该讲嘅话”00:06:34
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约伯明白佢太太00:06:35
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系因为好伤心先至噉样讲00:06:38
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所以佢冇反驳 冇同佢拗00:06:41
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佢冇好似一般人噉00:06:43
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只系凭感觉行事00:06:45
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反而系好冷静 全心信赖上帝00:06:48
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同样如果屋企人好唔开心 乱讲嘢00:06:52
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我哋仁慈 友善噉回答00:06:54
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就系按耶和华嘅智慧行事喇00:06:57
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唔好走去反驳佢哋00:06:59
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只要话俾佢哋听 我哋好爱佢哋00:07:02
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同好信赖耶和华就够㗎喇00:07:06
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第二点 约伯教识我哋00:07:08
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就算唔知道情况点解有改变都好00:07:11
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都要继续忠于耶和华00:07:13
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佢啲朋友根据人嘅观点00:07:16
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好唔公平噉指控佢00:07:19
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虽然约伯当时思绪混乱00:07:21
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好伤心 乱咁讲嘢00:07:24
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但系佢仍然好多谢耶和华00:07:27
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继续照顾佢00:07:29
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一齐睇吓佢点讲吖 约伯记10:1200:07:34
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约伯记10:1200:07:39
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佢话“你赐生命俾我00:07:41
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忠贞噉爱我00:07:43
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细心保护我嘅生命”00:07:46
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嗰个时候约伯都未知道00:07:48
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点解会有噉嘅遭遇00:07:50
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佢喺身体同感情上都受到打击00:07:53
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仍然信赖耶和华00:07:56
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佢好多谢耶和华赐咗好多嘢俾佢00:07:59
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佢同啲朋友讲00:08:01
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佢仍然好爱耶和华00:08:04
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类似嘅系00:08:05
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当未信主嘅屋企人想说服我哋00:08:08
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叫我哋唔好再继续全时服务00:08:11
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我哋都会觉得好大压力00:08:14
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不过我哋都可以好似约伯噉00:08:17
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表达对耶和华嘅爱00:08:19
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同感激佢为我哋做嘅嘢00:08:21
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要记得 我哋未信主嘅屋企人00:08:24
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唔一定明白00:08:25
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点解我哋咁重视为上帝服务00:08:28
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但系耶和华就知道 仲好欣赏添00:08:32
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第三点00:08:33
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我哋可以喺约伯身上学到00:08:36
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要忍耐同埋深信耶和华一定会帮我哋00:08:40
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约伯唔知点解会受苦00:08:42
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但系仍然保持忠贞00:08:45
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我哋一齐睇吓00:08:46
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佢喺约伯记19:25点讲吖00:08:51
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经文话00:08:53
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“我好清楚知道我嘅救赎主系存在㗎00:08:57
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佢将会起嚟企喺大地之上”00:09:01
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约伯佢所经历嘅考验00:09:05
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有可能持续咗几个月00:09:08
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或者未够一年00:09:10
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不过呢节经文话00:09:12
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佢深信耶和华一定会救赎佢00:09:15
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因为佢知道喺耶和华眼中00:09:17
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佢系好有价值㗎00:09:19
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所以佢继续忍耐同等候00:09:22
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可能我哋因为环境改变00:09:25
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工作岗位结束00:09:26
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甚至系因为好爱嘅人离世00:09:29
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而觉得好悲伤00:09:30
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真系要啲时间先至可以平复返00:09:35
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不过我哋可以好似约伯噉00:09:38
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继续对耶和华保持忠贞00:09:41
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同耐心等候佢00:09:42
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佢一定唔会忘记我哋00:09:45
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约伯嘅事例帮我哋明白00:09:48
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一啲嚟自屋企人 亲人嘅压力00:09:50
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系会考验我哋对耶和华嘅信心㗎00:09:55
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但系就算情况好似约伯一样咁困难00:09:59
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我哋都可以对耶和华保持忠贞00:10:03
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呢个时候千祈唔好00:10:04
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依靠自己唔完美嘅谂法00:10:07
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而系要按耶和华嘅智慧00:10:09
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唔系按自己嘅感觉行事00:10:12
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就算唔明白点解都要保持忠贞00:10:15
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等候耶和华00:10:17
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我哋继续忍耐00:10:18
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佢系知㗎 而且好欣赏我哋00:10:21
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只要我哋同约伯一样保持忠义00:10:23
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佢一定会赐福俾我哋00:10:26
彼得·普赖斯:在情感压力下保持忠贞
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彼得·普赖斯:在情感压力下保持忠贞
身为上帝嘅子民
我哋都会避免依赖人嘅谂法
尤其系当信心受到考验嗰阵
正如今日嘅经文所讲
如果我哋开始
纯粹用人嘅观点去睇事情嘅话
慢慢我哋就会
忘记咗依赖耶和华
我哋大多数人已经有心理准备
要面对撒但嘅攻击
可能系直接嘅迫害或者反对
我哋都知道要用咩圣经原则
点样尊重噉回应
彼得前书3:15话
“要准备好为自己嘅希望辩护
向人解释呢个希望有乜嘢根据”
噉唔系话我哋要靠自己
或者觉得自己叻过其他人
而系我哋信赖上帝嘅指引
同埋智慧
箴言3:5,6提醒我哋
“要全心信赖上帝
唔可以依靠自己嘅聪明”
呢个世界嘅人会依靠自己嘅聪明
钟意做乜就做乜
但系信赖耶和华嘅人
就唔会受呢种思想影响
不过有时撒但嘅攻击未必好直接㗎
甚至系唔容易察觉到
估佢唔到㗎
例如当我哋屋企面对紧一啲困难
呢个时候有啲屋企人嘅反应
会令我哋好难受
我哋未必察觉到呢个系个考验嚟㗎
以为只系屋企人嘅反应
牵动咗我哋嘅情绪
而令到自己有压力啫
但系耶和华就知道得好清楚
所以喺圣经入面记录咗一啲好榜样
佢哋面对屋企人俾嘅压力
仍然保持忠贞
其中一个好榜样就系约伯
我哋知道约伯系个紧守忠义嘅人
喺考验之下失去咗好多嘢
但系喺咁多个考验之中
令佢最难受嘅系嚟自佢太太
佢同约伯都系考验之中
经历紧极大嘅伤痛
我哋一齐睇吓约伯记2:9
约伯记2:9
当时佢太太好伤心就话
“你仲要紧守忠义呀?
你咒上帝 死咗佢算啦”
佢太太噉样讲唔系因为佢好刻薄
而系因为佢受到好大嘅打击
好伤心
而家向约伯施压 要佢放弃忠义嘅
唔系佢嘅敌人
而系佢好爱嘅太太
你有冇经历过类似嘅情况呢?
可能你嘅父母
啱啱入咗院甚至过咗身
你同屋企人一时间都未接受到
喺呢个时候
其中一个屋企人同你讲
“个屋企你都有份㗎
你净系顾住个委派就得㗎啦
啲嘢唔使理㗎?”
同你越亲嘅人噉样讲
你嘅感觉就越大
你可能会谂
“点解佢会噉样讲嘅
我都好想多啲陪屋企人
但系冇办法噉样做
我都好难受㗎㖞!
我成日都为佢哋祷告 挂住佢哋
挂到经常瞓唔着
呢啲你又知唔知吖?”
喺呢个时候
我哋嘅思想可能会
比自己嘅感情影响到
唔单止系约伯嘅太太令约伯好难受
佢嘅朋友以利法、比勒达同琐法
都比咗好大压力佢
以利法话约伯肯定系做错咗啲乜嘢
琐法叫佢唔好再犯罪
比勒达就话佢嘅仔女
实系犯咗罪先至要死
佢哋对约伯冇爱心
唔系讲紧事实
只系讲自己嘅谂法啫
之后耶和华喺约伯记42:7
同以利法讲
“你同你嗰两个朋友令我好嬲
因为你哋谈论我
唔似我嘅仆人约伯讲嘅咁正确”
佢哋以为帮紧约伯
其实就伤害紧佢
类似嘅说话未必好似约伯噉
嚟自一啲所谓嘅朋友
而系可能嚟自未崇拜耶和华嘅屋企人
我哋可能喺而家嘅岗位
忠贞噉服务咗好耐
但系而家要改变岗位
甚至就快完喇
我哋祷告希望可以
继续为耶和华全时服务
呢个时候就听到有人噉样讲
“你仲要为教会做义工呀?
做咗咁耐乜都够啦
谂吓自己 揾多啲钱”
屋企人可能唔明白
我哋点解咁想为耶和华服务
尤其系如果因为岗位改变
我哋觉得唔开心
噉佢哋嘅说话
就可能会动摇我哋嘅决定喇
同约伯嘅朋友一样
呢啲说话系人嘅谂法
唔系嚟自上帝㗎
嚟自人嘅谂法
好容易令我哋忘记咗耶和华嘅观点
呢啲噉样嘅压力系唔容易察觉㗎
仲会令人失去警觉
虽然约伯喺精神上承受巨大嘅压力
而且佢唔知道自己点解会受苦
但系仍然坚守对上帝嘅忠义
我哋喺佢身上可以学到乜嘢呢?
有三点㗎
第一样
约伯教我哋要依靠耶和华嘅智慧
唔系自己嘅感觉或者人嘅谂法
佢嘅太太当时好伤心
仲叫佢放弃
但系约伯冇嬲、冇反驳佢
只系强调自己会继续信赖耶和华
我哋睇吓佢喺约伯记2:10点讲吖
约伯记2:10
“约伯就回答
‘你讲说话就好似一个无知嘅女人
唔通我哋从上帝嗰度净系接受福分
但系就唔接受灾祸咩?’
即使遭遇呢一切
但系约伯冇讲唔应该讲嘅话”
约伯明白佢太太
系因为好伤心先至噉样讲
所以佢冇反驳 冇同佢拗
佢冇好似一般人噉
只系凭感觉行事
反而系好冷静 全心信赖上帝
同样如果屋企人好唔开心 乱讲嘢
我哋仁慈 友善噉回答
就系按耶和华嘅智慧行事喇
唔好走去反驳佢哋
只要话俾佢哋听 我哋好爱佢哋
同好信赖耶和华就够㗎喇
第二点 约伯教识我哋
就算唔知道情况点解有改变都好
都要继续忠于耶和华
佢啲朋友根据人嘅观点
好唔公平噉指控佢
虽然约伯当时思绪混乱
好伤心 乱咁讲嘢
但系佢仍然好多谢耶和华
继续照顾佢
一齐睇吓佢点讲吖 约伯记10:12
约伯记10:12
佢话“你赐生命俾我
忠贞噉爱我
细心保护我嘅生命”
嗰个时候约伯都未知道
点解会有噉嘅遭遇
佢喺身体同感情上都受到打击
仍然信赖耶和华
佢好多谢耶和华赐咗好多嘢俾佢
佢同啲朋友讲
佢仍然好爱耶和华
类似嘅系
当未信主嘅屋企人想说服我哋
叫我哋唔好再继续全时服务
我哋都会觉得好大压力
不过我哋都可以好似约伯噉
表达对耶和华嘅爱
同感激佢为我哋做嘅嘢
要记得 我哋未信主嘅屋企人
唔一定明白
点解我哋咁重视为上帝服务
但系耶和华就知道 仲好欣赏添
第三点
我哋可以喺约伯身上学到
要忍耐同埋深信耶和华一定会帮我哋
约伯唔知点解会受苦
但系仍然保持忠贞
我哋一齐睇吓
佢喺约伯记19:25点讲吖
经文话
“我好清楚知道我嘅救赎主系存在㗎
佢将会起嚟企喺大地之上”
约伯佢所经历嘅考验
有可能持续咗几个月
或者未够一年
不过呢节经文话
佢深信耶和华一定会救赎佢
因为佢知道喺耶和华眼中
佢系好有价值㗎
所以佢继续忍耐同等候
可能我哋因为环境改变
工作岗位结束
甚至系因为好爱嘅人离世
而觉得好悲伤
真系要啲时间先至可以平复返
不过我哋可以好似约伯噉
继续对耶和华保持忠贞
同耐心等候佢
佢一定唔会忘记我哋
约伯嘅事例帮我哋明白
一啲嚟自屋企人 亲人嘅压力
系会考验我哋对耶和华嘅信心㗎
但系就算情况好似约伯一样咁困难
我哋都可以对耶和华保持忠贞
呢个时候千祈唔好
依靠自己唔完美嘅谂法
而系要按耶和华嘅智慧
唔系按自己嘅感觉行事
就算唔明白点解都要保持忠贞
等候耶和华
我哋继续忍耐
佢系知㗎 而且好欣赏我哋
只要我哋同约伯一样保持忠义
佢一定会赐福俾我哋
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